MSVC doesn't support C99, and building as C++ to be able to use them is
dangerous, as C++ and C99 are incompatible.
Introduce a VARIABLE_ARRAY macro that either uses VLA when supported,
or alloca() otherwise. Note that using alloca() inside loops doesn't
quite work like VLAs, thus the use of VARIABLE_ARRAY there is discouraged.
It might be worth investigating ways to check whether VARIABLE_ARRAY is
used in such context at runtime in debug builds and bail out if that
happens.
Since we're now including jemalloc_internal.h, all the required headers
are already pulled. This will avoid having to fiddle with headers that can
or can't be used with MSVC. Also, now that we use malloc_printf, we can use
util.h's definition of assert instead of assert.h's.
